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3. Be extraordinary. Whether it is someone you date, your friends or your family -- anyone that is real, pure and honest must see this. They will value you. They will cherish you. They will seek and find you, no matter what. This must be your consistent belief.

2. We always have to be open to opposing perspectives. Recognize when you are pulling yourself too much to one extreme. Know your potential and know that you have a long way to go to reach it. Never settle. Never be boring and achieve all those things, professionally or emotionally that bring you happiness. Have a big heart and a keen mind. You have so much more to learn and give, but you have to push yourself. Only you can do that.

1. Learn to have faith. Not just in words, but in your heart. Do not allow past disappointment to bring you down. This is faith. Faith in the most important thing: yourself. You have to believe with everything that makes you, you, that this is unique, beautiful and strong. That you could give with all your heart, to yourself, to anyone or to the world and not receive one thing back, not one affirmation (verbal or otherwise), yet you will get everything you need despite this. Because you have faith that you will receive what you seek, because you are indeed that valuable. That somehow it will all work because this is what makes you worth these words and many more.